After a divorce, parenting time (formerly known as visitation) is a vital aspect of preserving family relationships, especially for non-custodial parents. If you do not have primary custody of your child, there are several positive steps you can take to make a strong case for improving your share of parenting time.
Michigan courts base parenting time decisions on the best interests of the child. This means determining that each parent will maintain a stable and nurturing environment, provide a suitable living arrangement and ensure that the child’s physical and emotional needs are met.
Here’s how you can position yourself as a responsible and involved parent deserving of greater parenting time:
- Be reliable and consistent —Show the court that you are dependable by adhering to existing parenting time schedules, attending all scheduled visits and being punctual. If you have a history of missing or rescheduling visits, work on improving this aspect. The court needs to see that you can be counted on to be present in your child’s life.
- Communicate effectively — The willingness to engage positively with your co-parent demonstrates that you are able to make joint decisions amicably in the best interests of your child. Avoid conflict and always communicate respectfully, focusing on your child’s needs rather than personal grievances. Keeping a record of all communications can be beneficial in showing your willingness to cooperate.
- Be involved in your child’s life — Attend parent-teacher conferences, school events, medical appointments and extracurricular activities. This shows that you are dedicated to your child’s development and well-being. Documenting your involvement can provide tangible proof of your commitment.
- Maintain a healthy lifestyle — Keep up your physical and mental health s by exercising regularly, eating well, and managing stress. Avoid behaviors that could negatively affect your parenting, such as substance abuse. Demonstrating a stable and healthy lifestyle reassures the court of your capability to care for your child.
- Follow court orders — Adhere to all parenting time and child support obligations. If you are uncertain about any legal aspects, consult with a family law attorney. Showing that you respect and follow legal protocols reflects positively on your ability to co-parent responsibly.
- Gather positive testimonials — Try to obtain character references from people who have observed you with your child, such as teachers, coaches, family members or friends who can attest to your involvement and commitment to your child.
When seeking increased parenting time, prepare a plan that outlines how you intend to care for your child, including daily routines, education, healthcare and recreational activities. A skilled Michigan child custody attorney can help you devise a detailed and well-thought-out parenting plan that shows you have carefully considered your child’s needs and are capable of meeting them.
Dawson Family Law, PLLC in Troy has extensive experience handling parenting time matters for clients throughout Michigan. Call 586-514-0084 or contact me online to schedule a consultation.
